Have you ever wondered why it’s so hard to get your spouse to do certain things? You know the ones I’m talking about. Year after year it’s the same result, no matter what you do or say, they don’t do it, what gives?

The simple truth is, a Happily Ever After marriage is like two railroad cars. You may be thinking that’s an odd analogy but stay with me. When two railroad cars come together they “couple” or become linked. Once connected, they can handle massive amounts of weight and stress while holding firm to each other. However before they can pull each other along, they have to be connected properly.

You maybe trying to pull your spouse to greatness, but you will stay frustrated with your lack of results unless, you truly connect. You have to connect before you can pull. Even if your spouse has given you the green light to help them in a certain area, without a solid connection, the railroad car isn’t going anywhere. Or worse, you may have a weak connection that allows you to ...